Kaira

Yeah, it sucks, but you'll get through it, and know yourself better as things go.

I know everybody has probably been saying this, but I'll say it anyway. Just give it time, you may feel like crap right now, but it will pass.

Thanks guys. =) I'm trying to make the best out of it. I'm looking on the brighter side of things.

I know you don't really know me but you will find someone better. Come to Texas and I will show ya around our great state ( well I will show ya around Dallas/Fort Worth great city and we have Cowboy Stadium which is awesome.

Haha thanks Wraith. Now if only i could get rich that would be awesome. =)

haha only need like 200-300 bucks for plane ticket depending on what ya get then 40-50 for a hotel (since i'm sorta kicked out of my house at the current moment haha)

So it all works out without having to be rich. its a plan

Don't want to pry into your personal situation, but hope you both are at least on equal terms, even friends hopefully to an extent. Try not to hold any anger in your spirit and live within peace, you'll feel better as you try to comfort yourself.

I don't exactly recall how old you are, but I think you're still fairly young. Relationships at your age are all about learning & having the experience. Go into the next relationship with the notion that it's not going to last, and enjoy it while it's there. That will help you guard your heart and not get so emotionally attached that when it's over you feel like your heart has been ripped out. Hopefully you learned some stuff in this previous relationship, so take that as something positive that came about through this experience. Time will heal and you'll be a better person for it. Hang in there!

@Wraith i still wanna be rich just for the heck of it. lol =p

@BPS Nah we're definitely not on equal terms. Living with a peaceful spirit does sound nice but i can not and will not ever forgive him for all of the things he has said to me. I'm channeling my anger into the things i need to get done like school and work and stuff. But i really appreciate the words of wisdom =D

@wolfmane You're right and I'm 21. lol but i guess because i always had this set plan for my life, i guess that's why i was so intent on establishing a good relationship but now i know that i really don't need to focus on that. And i definitely will go into the next one thinking its not gonna last but i will still treasure it. And yes after me and my ex split, i have learned A LOT about myself that i need to fix. (He clearly told me that...>.>) I plan on fixing the flaws that i now know i have so if and when i do find a relationship that is worth keeping i won't push the person away.

Thanks to everyone for the reassuring words. It really does help. I'm glad i know you guys. =)

Thats what we are here for. and as for changing flaws. they can't be taht big and i've heard plenty of times that I should change a few things about myself but i say no. I like me and will continue to be me. And don't we all want to be rich.

Aww sweetie there are plenty of men out there. When I was your age I was ending a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years because he played too many games with my mind and I got sick of it....a few months later I met another guy and I knew he was the one. It's been 7 years and we are still together and married. Just take this time to focus on YOU and when you least expect it, you'll find someone else! Goodluck and sorry I killed ya last night hehe...I have a thing against pyros and I go for them first ^_*

Relationships are for the birds. Enjoy the bliss of not having to deal with someone else.